i don’t mean to be abrupt when i say this, but you have to DROP THE PAST, bury it forever, STOP looking backwards or you will never move forwards (psychologically). STOP blaming things GET OVER IT. Many people in the world have had it a whole lot worse than you had. I think you need to break away from your scenery for a while, get out of the mundane routine, take a break from the studies. Get away from your immediate surroundings, take a step back, go travel a little bit, might open a new door !
i think you must STOP the law studies (not saying it isn’t a great career or anything) but i’m thinking that you won’t find happiness in it. You have to find something that you love doing (no criminal stuff, LOL). If you find something that you love doing, as long as you can make a decent living off of it then that’s all that really matters. If you love what you do, the success will come. ITS NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND, BELIEVE ME!!! You must do what you love to do otherwise there’s no point!!!!!
also (from below) all the rich people in the world are MORE dissatisfied with their lives than the mediocre ones, because they dont appreciate anything anymore. Their perspective on life is that everything is disposable, everything can be bought. But they can still never buy the things they REALLY want, they cannot buy personal fulfillment, real purpose or meaning in their lives. They get new cars, Porsche’s and Ferrari’s and mansions, but they are NEVER satisfied… always want sumthng else!!!
Okay, Raspout81, listen to me when i say this. No matter how much money one will ever make in their entire lifetime, even if they are filthy rich… money does NOT make you feel fulfilled. Ther are a whole ton of many FILTHY RICH people in the world and they hate their lives. Because they spent all their time chasing money. Then when they finally have it all, they realize they have wasted their life trying to get it. You need to find something that really inspires you. STOP the LAW studies!!!!!!
But i hate excuses, so i keep going and trying to make my life better, i dont want to just sit back and say….oh i was bullied and called a loser for years..bou hou hou…..to hell with this it was all bullshit anyways.
But wierd thing is the state of my heart wont follow the state of mind im in…and im just not able to change that.
I remain extinguished, no matter how my mind gets into it, im a living dead guy.
To be honest, i never really knew what i want to do with my life, and i dont think i ever will.
I was bullied a lot when i was a kid, this continuous shit and also having my dad call me a lowlife loser who will never get anywhere kind of….extinguished me, im alive but i dont feel like im living at all.
Nothing get’s me going, im just bored with life, the only thing getting me some excitement is like you said, being a rebel and crime, and i want money so much i am sick of being poor.
I think i needpower, its possible to be powerfull whitout becoming a gangster…im studying law right now and got some accounting and management certificates done too.
Still, this idea of easy money never leaves my mind.
I need to be the respected center of attention, to be the one people admire or fear, im sick of being just another next door joe broke as fuck…i just dont feel important enough. I like money too much too!
But it does not explain my crime fascination since i was a kid.
@Raspout1981 you are rebelling against your life because you dont like it. its better to not see family/friends, maybe only for a few years start a whole new life maybe in a different town/country and do what YOU want to do. we arent in communism germany anymore :( hope you can figure something out man. when you are doing what you want in life helping people and makin love will feel as good as commiting crimes without the risk of death :)
Raspout1981, if you are being serious… i knew some guy a few years back (a guy who i grew up with and went to highschool together), he had the same dreams as you do. It turned out that he robbed a bank and got caught, locked up for 8 years. Then he was recruited as a police informant because of his years as a drug dealer before that. He is now the head police chief in a police precinct in Seattle. Now he gets his real “thrill” and “power trip” of taking away the power from the criminals!! LOL
I have a problem cause my lifelong dream has been to be a criminal…this feeling of power and control is what get’s me, nothing else make’s me feel more fullfilled then power and control over everything, and not taking no for an answer, and even if someone says no, taking or doing what i want and just telling them to F?$K OFF !
But i dont want to end up locked up or dead…and i dont want to be a shame to my family.
I knew a guy who felt he wasn’t good at anything… then a friend was havin fun and they danced a little bit. She noticed he had talent, he did aswell… and he enjoyed it, so he went to a dance academy. He now represents his country in competitions all over the world.
thats right, its such a shame so many people are locked into a particular lifestyle because they wont change something so simple? as a thought pattern!
Yes, and I believe that what Mr Robbins teaches us is to be open minded the possibilities. The problem with goals happens to be what others think of them. You cannot always stick to what others believe. People with unconventional ways of thinking happen to be the ones who turn their life around. If you don’t try and take risks, you won’t receive. That’s my belief.
Listen I understand. Its hard to find that right niche in our lives. I have tried various different ways of improving my situation. Some short lived, others not. The key is not to listen to what others tell you. Take a risk. Try something completely new. You have nothing to lose. Even if you fail, you’ll keep looking for other solutions. You have to be unconventional sometimes to succeed.
Tony Robbins has taught millions of people how to overcome limiting beliefs and achieve a state of peak performance. Tony Robbins inspired me to create my motivational website “personal-development-tv (dot) com”
i have yet to find anything that makes me happy i keep looking but every time i try something i get bored with it very quickly. so all i have to do is find something that makes me feel fulfilled he makes it sound so easy
i don’t mean to be abrupt when i say this, but you have to DROP THE PAST, bury it forever, STOP looking backwards or you will never move forwards (psychologically). STOP blaming things GET OVER IT. Many people in the world have had it a whole lot worse than you had. I think you need to break away from your scenery for a while, get out of the mundane routine, take a break from the studies. Get away from your immediate surroundings, take a step back, go travel a little bit, might open a new door !
i think you must STOP the law studies (not saying it isn’t a great career or anything) but i’m thinking that you won’t find happiness in it. You have to find something that you love doing (no criminal stuff, LOL). If you find something that you love doing, as long as you can make a decent living off of it then that’s all that really matters. If you love what you do, the success will come. ITS NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND, BELIEVE ME!!! You must do what you love to do otherwise there’s no point!!!!!
also (from below)
all the rich people in the world are MORE dissatisfied with their lives than the mediocre ones, because they dont appreciate anything anymore. Their perspective on life is that everything is disposable, everything can be bought. But they can still never buy the things they REALLY want, they cannot buy personal fulfillment, real purpose or meaning in their lives. They get new cars, Porsche’s and Ferrari’s and mansions, but they are NEVER satisfied… always want sumthng else!!!
Okay, Raspout81, listen to me when i say this. No matter how much money one will ever make in their entire lifetime, even if they are filthy rich… money does NOT make you feel fulfilled. Ther are a whole ton of many FILTHY RICH people in the world and they hate their lives. Because they spent all their time chasing money. Then when they finally have it all, they realize they have wasted their life trying to get it. You need to find something that really inspires you. STOP the LAW studies!!!!!!
But i hate excuses, so i keep going and trying to make my life better, i dont want to just sit back and say….oh i was bullied and called a loser for years..bou hou hou…..to hell with this it was all bullshit anyways.
But wierd thing is the state of my heart wont follow the state of mind im in…and im just not able to change that.
I remain extinguished, no matter how my mind gets into it, im a living dead guy.
Very wierd !
To be honest, i never really knew what i want to do with my life, and i dont think i ever will.
I was bullied a lot when i was a kid, this continuous shit and also having my dad call me a lowlife loser who will never get anywhere kind of….extinguished me, im alive but i dont feel like im living at all.
Nothing get’s me going, im just bored with life, the only thing getting me some excitement is like you said, being a rebel and crime, and i want money so much i am sick of being poor.
I think i needpower, its possible to be powerfull whitout becoming a gangster…im studying law right now and got some accounting and management certificates done too.
Still, this idea of easy money never leaves my mind.
I need to be the respected center of attention, to be the one people admire or fear, im sick of being just another next door joe broke as fuck…i just dont feel important enough. I like money too much too!
But it does not explain my crime fascination since i was a kid.
I dont think i will have the courage to actually go for it, i cant go 2 jail since im very skinny, me being skinny and weak keeps me away from crime.
But if i did commit crime it would certainly not be robbing banks haha Everyone has a cellphone its just a stupid crime to commit.
But its scary, i was 11 when i stole money to my parents and doing this got me a woody…i really have some fascination for crime.
But i also have a conscience of not hurting other people. Im a walking contradiction
@Raspout1981 you are rebelling against your life because you dont like it. its better to not see family/friends, maybe only for a few years start a whole new life maybe in a different town/country and do what YOU want to do. we arent in communism germany anymore :( hope you can figure something out man. when you are doing what you want in life helping people and makin love will feel as good as commiting crimes without the risk of death :)
Raspout1981, if you are being serious… i knew some guy a few years back (a guy who i grew up with and went to highschool together), he had the same dreams as you do. It turned out that he robbed a bank and got caught, locked up for 8 years. Then he was recruited as a police informant because of his years as a drug dealer before that. He is now the head police chief in a police precinct in Seattle. Now he gets his real “thrill” and “power trip” of taking away the power from the criminals!! LOL
criminal life does’nt last long, and never pays off! use all that energy to do something positive in your life!
I have a problem cause my lifelong dream has been to be a criminal…this feeling of power and control is what get’s me, nothing else make’s me feel more fullfilled then power and control over everything, and not taking no for an answer, and even if someone says no, taking or doing what i want and just telling them to F?$K OFF !
But i dont want to end up locked up or dead…and i dont want to be a shame to my family.
No idea what to do really…
You have to try new things to find what you like and what you are good at. That takes more time for some people than others.
Fantastic point tony makes!!
So true!! Choose what is suitable for you
Trust me man, everyone has a gift.
I knew a guy who felt he wasn’t good at anything… then a friend was havin fun and they danced a little bit. She noticed he had talent, he did aswell… and he enjoyed it, so he went to a dance academy. He now represents his country in competitions all over the world.
You have to try things to discover yourself.
11 years of living and I still have not yet found my gift. I don’t even think I have a gift…
thats right, its such a shame so many people are locked into a particular lifestyle because they wont change something so simple? as a thought pattern!
Yes, and I believe that what Mr Robbins teaches us is to be open minded the possibilities. The problem with goals happens to be what others think of them. You cannot always stick to what others believe.
People with unconventional ways of thinking happen to be the ones who turn their life around. If you don’t try and take risks, you won’t receive. That’s my belief.
Listen I understand. Its hard to find that right niche in our lives. I have tried various different ways of improving my situation. Some short lived, others not. The key is not to listen to what others tell you.
Take a risk. Try something completely new. You have nothing to lose. Even if you fail, you’ll keep looking for other solutions. You have to be unconventional sometimes to succeed.
Apparently, vaccines also contain bovine waste material. A friend of mine says vaccines are BULLSHIT!
Tony Robbins has taught millions of people how to overcome limiting beliefs and achieve a state of peak performance. Tony Robbins inspired me to create my motivational website “personal-development-tv (dot) com”
i have yet to find anything that makes me happy i keep looking but every time i try something i get bored with it very quickly. so all i have to do is find something that makes me feel fulfilled he makes it sound so easy
r u sure wat u saying can u prove it
I love listening to his voice. It’s epic.
you all fuckers who says wrong about tony are really not grown up
you must have to listen every good thing